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Notes from the matchmakers.
Notes on modern dating, matchmaking, and what we've learned arranging introductions for thoughtful singles.
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Dating Advice
Practical guidance from our matchmakers on dating with intention.
Relationship Insights
Reflections on what makes modern partnerships actually work.
Cultural Dating Tips
Navigating cross-cultural dating with respect and curiosity.
Matchmaker Perspectives
Notes from inside the studio — what we see, what we believe.
June 19, 2026 · Alice Hou, Founder
Love Languages Across Cultures
How different cultures express love — and how curiosity, not assumption, builds the strongest cross-cultural relationships.
Read →June 19, 2026 · Alice Hou, Founder
Chemistry vs. Compatibility: Understanding the Difference
Chemistry creates the spark, but compatibility builds the life. A matchmaker's guide to telling them apart.
Read →June 19, 2026 · Alice Hou, Founder
Stop Looking for Perfect
The healthiest relationships are built on alignment, not perfection — a short note from our matchmakers.
Read →June 19, 2026 · Alice Hou, Founder
The Most Attractive Quality
Why kindness — not appearance, status, or success — is the strongest predictor of a lasting relationship.
Read →June 19, 2026 · Alice Hou, Founder
Reflections on What Makes Modern Partnerships Truly Thrive
Thoughtful perspectives on communication, emotional intelligence, compatibility, trust, and the habits that help lasting partnerships flourish.
Read →June 19, 2026 · Alice Hou, Founder
The Dark Side of Online Dating: What Dating Apps Don't Tell You
A matchmaker's honest perspective on the hidden costs, design choices, and emotional toll of swipe culture.
Read →June 19, 2026 · Alice Hou, Founder
What You Need to Know About Dating an Asian Woman
A respectful, modern guide to dating an Asian woman — values, communication, culture, and the qualities that build lasting relationships.
Read →June 18, 2026 · Jonathan Chen
The Dark Side of Online Dating: What Dating Apps Don't Tell You
Online dating has made meeting people easier than ever before. With a simple swipe, you can connect with thousands of singles in your area.
Read →June 18, 2026 · ConnectionLoves
The Quiet Guide to a Memorable First Date in San Francisco
A matchmaker's guide to first dates in San Francisco — where to go, how to plan, and what makes an evening feel effortless rather than performed.
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