Find your person.
Meaningful relationships have the power to change everything.
At ConnectionLoves, we help accomplished, relationship-minded individuals find genuine connections built on shared values, mutual respect, and lasting compatibility.
This is more than dating. It is the beginning of a new chapter—one filled with companionship, purpose, and the possibility of extraordinary love.
Through personalized matchmaking, thoughtful introductions, and dedicated guidance, we help you find the person who not only complements your life, but enriches it.
Because the right person doesn't just share your journey—they help transform it.
Private Matchmaking. Meaningful Connections. Lasting Love.
From Introduction to Engagement in Just Three Months
One of the most rewarding moments in my work happened this week.
Three months ago, I introduced two wonderful members through Connection Loves. Today, they shared the exciting news that they have decided to get married at the end of this year. ❤️
Singles Social
An afternoon of relaxed conversation and genuine connection in a beautiful setting.
What if this is where it begins?
Join us for coffee, conversation, and the chance to meet someone new.
Event Highlights
- Meet quality singles who are serious about building meaningful relationships
- Enjoy premium coffee and a delicious breakfast
- Network in a beautiful, upscale coffee shop in Palo Alto
- Enter our raffle for exciting prizes
- Gain valuable relationship and dating insights from the ConnectionLoves team
The quiet art of matchmaking
Our three-step process is designed to understand the nuance of your character before a single meeting is ever arranged.
01 | The DiscoveryEvery extraordinary relationship begins with understanding.
Through a private consultation, we take the time to learn your values, lifestyle, relationship goals, and the qualities that matter most to you. This is more than a profile—it's the foundation of a meaningful connection.
02 | The Curated SearchOur work happens behind the scenes.
Each potential introduction is personally vetted by our matchmakers for compatibility, character, and shared life vision. We focus on qualities that cannot be measured by algorithms alone.
03 | The IntroductionWhen the right opportunity arises, we facilitate a thoughtful introduction.
From arranging the first meeting to gathering post-date feedback, we guide the process with discretion, care, and personalized support—helping meaningful connections develop naturally.
Meet Alice Hou
With 26+ years in real estate, mortgage, and financial planning, Alice has spent her career helping people build stable, successful lives. After meeting many accomplished singles who struggled to form real connections online, she founded ConnectionLoves — a personalized matchmaking and advisory studio for relationship-minded people who want something authentic and lasting.
Founder & CEO
26+ years guiding life's biggest decisions
Stories of Connection
"Working with Alice was a wonderful experience. She genuinely listened to my relationship goals and took the time to understand my values, lifestyle, and expectations. Her personalized approach made me feel comfortable and confident throughout the process. I highly recommend ConnectionLoves and Alice to anyone looking for a serious, long-term relationship."
Peter
Member since March 2026
"After years of frustration with dating apps, I decided to try ConnectionLoves. Alice made the entire process easy and enjoyable. She carefully screened potential matches and provided thoughtful feedback after each introduction. I appreciated her dedication and genuine commitment to helping people find meaningful relationships."
Michelle
Member since May 2026
"As a busy professional, I didn't have time to navigate endless dating apps. ConnectionLoves provided a private, confidential, and efficient matchmaking service. The team genuinely cares about helping people build lasting relationships, and I felt supported throughout the entire process."
Naresh
Member since February 2026
"What impressed me most about ConnectionLoves was the quality of the members and the attention to detail. The profile consultation and relationship guidance helped me present my best self and avoid wasting time on incompatible matches. The experience was completely different from online dating and much more effective."
Ken
Member since January 2026
Membership
A commitment to finding quality through intent.
Private Basic Membership
$990
12 months
- 12-month private membership access
- Personalized profile refinement & positioning
- Curated introduction service (min. 1 qualified match)
- Access to select private social experiences
- Light advisory support throughout membership
Private Premium Matchmaking
Our Services & Pricing
ConnectionLoves provides private, personalized matchmaking and relationship advisory services. Because each client's goals, preferences, and service requirements are unique, membership fees vary depending on the level of service selected.
We begin with a complimentary 20-minute consultation to understand your relationship goals and recommend the most appropriate membership program and pricing.
Membership programs currently range from several thousand dollars to premium VIP services, depending on the scope of service.
- In-depth private consultation & strategy
- Personal styling & photoshoot coordination
- Dedicated matchmaker with proactive search
- Highly selective pre-vetted introductions
- Ongoing relationship advisory & feedback
Common Questions
Who are your members?
Our members are thoughtful professionals who value their time and seek genuine partnership over the transient nature of dating apps.
Is my privacy protected?
Absolutely. We never share your profile publicly. All introductions are handled with the utmost discretion by our internal team.
How do you find matches?
We combine our internal Registry of thousands with active recruiting in professional networks and social circles tailored to your profile.
What if I'm not ready to commit to Concierge?
The Registry is the perfect starting point. Join, get vetted, and be considered for introductions by our Concierge clients — entirely on your own timeline.
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